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MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN FIGHTING A LOT LATELY. IS IT MY FAULT?
No. Please don’t ever blame yourself for your parents’ behaviors. It is very normal for parents to disagree from time to time on “adult” things. There may come a time where the disagreements turn into arguments, which can become fights. Most of the time, these arguments are a way for adults to let out their frustration or fix the miscommunication between themselves. Everyone loses their “cool” at some point. However, adults are much more mature than us especially at this stage of our lives; just know they always find a way to make up for the fighting and arguments, even if it seems like they are unable to in the moment.
I JUST FOUND OUT MY MOM/DAD IS CHEATING. IS IT OKAY THAT I AM MAD?
Of course it is. You are a human who is entitled to your feelings. However, it is how you deal with those feelings that matter. Don’t bottle them up, as hard as that sounds. Let yourself run the course of the emotions, and once you are done, take a hard, long look at your values. You, and only you, can know what you are willing to tolerate or forgive. Draw your line in the sand, and trust your instincts.
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